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Hi, I'm often frightened to sleepover at my friends houses because I shart (go poo while trying to fart) whenever I start to laugh. I'm afraid that I'll run out of extra underwear and won't be comfortable while sleeping! What should I do?
go to the toilet regularly!! and stay away from foods that cause you to fart such as beans and also break down the food properly as you chew helps a lot!
I have feelings for this guy we have kissed before and wenever we see each other we flirt he said he would talk (message) me more but he only talks to me somedays then the next he won't then the next her won't then he will again then repeat he says to me how beautiful I am but does he like me or what he's sending me mixed signals and I don't no what to do
he probably isn’t sure of how he feels yet and i don’t think he is trying to play with you or anything like that, so don’t worry about that. he may talk to you one day and not the other because he probably thinks he seems too desperate or clingy! give it time, don’t rush into things and things will go as they are meant to. most of the time people give mixed signals because they do not know what they want so if you give it time, he will get to know you better and will know if he really does like you or not. don’t take it too harsh though, boys AND girls give mixed signals all the time especially during the start of a relationship xxx good luck gorgeous!
I have had strong feelings for this guy and the other day we finally kissed I told him how I have depression and had a deep conversation the next morning it's like I have lost all my feelings for him and want to move ON it's annoying because I want to keep liking him but can't control my feelings this gets me in such a bother I don't understand why I'm like this?
i am finding a good way to answer this question properly, so hopefully i make sense! haha. well sometimes people have mixed feelings about someone and those feelings can grow stronger in time. in your case, you lose all your feelings the next day so the advice i can give you is to take your time. people’s feelings turn on and off sometimes but once you are more sure of how you feel about this guy then your relationship and feelings will get stronger and more constant. dont worry, it isn’t such a big deal but i want you to self analyse yourself and think about what you feel for this guy and WHY you feel that way. do you really like him or do you just need a shoulder to lean on? also, i am sorry about your depression and i hope your life turns more positive! :) xxxx good luck to you xxx
do you believe in horoscopes? why? why not?
i don’t necessarily believe in them but i do read mine every month or so just because i am interested. my beliefs are that no one can tell the future besides God. i like to believe that the things said in my horoscope will happen, but most of the time it’s just a load of crap that i hope will happen :)
I hooked up with this guy I regret k was blind drunk his saying to people we did stuff but we didn't even because I have a boyfriend what do I do
this is a tricky situation because you were drunk when this happened. you may or may not have done those things because you were intoxicated, but you have to keep your head held high because there will be people talking about you behind your back but the most important thing to remember is that at the end of the day, they are just thoughts and people. those thoughts may involve you for a couple days or weeks but people lose interest in other people’s lives and soon move onto another’s. there are just some people that you can’t convince, so you just have to stay strong and not let those thoughts drive you down. if you do, then they will have more to talk about. About the boyfriend, if he truly cared about you and trusted you, then he would forgive you for hooking up with this guy or he may break up with you because of those drunk actions. the best thing to do is be honest with him and tell him what did and didn’t happen. i don’t know what he may choose to do but if he doesn’t care about you then he will believe those rumors. there is not much you can do about rumors besides keeping your heed held high and not let them get to you. please stay strong.
p.s. don’t have any more involvement with the guy you hooked up with because that will make everyone convinced that you did do ‘stuff’ with him
when can you say that "life is beautiful?"
you can say ‘life is beautiful’ when you take a bite of chocolate, when you look at yourself in the mirror everyday and be grateful that you are here on this earth today and you are ok. you can say this when you are in the car, looking out of the window at the trees that you drive by everyday and take for granted. wondering about creation and thinking of your own very existence makes you say ‘life is beautiful’.
which do you prefer? naturally tan (Asians maybe) or white people? :)
to be honest, i think both are beautiful. my family is Eurasian so i love Asian people and i think there are lots of beautiful Asian people. It’s hard to decide, i can’t choose between the two!
tips on how to be skinny
i get asked this a lot and the best answer i can give you is to:
